The most famous quote about
friendship says “a friend in need is a friend indeed”. Here, the doing word is ‘need’,
the word that defines a true friendship. Therefore, my question is, is there
anything called a real friendship? Are all friendships in relation to the “need”
that if anyone is totally useless, at present or in the future, will she/he be
considered a friend? If yes, then why are there no rich as friends for the
poor? If no, then is the term FRIENDSHIP a mirage, an ideal which exists only
in imagination or metaphysical?
The rich join hands with only the
rich and influential, the middle class with the middle class and the like. A
close gaze at all the friendships one can find a give and take policy that
binds it. The more the satisfaction of mutual “need”, the stronger the
friendship is. It simply means that any relation is valuable; any friendship is
valuable, only when there is any USE. The rich never join their poor
relatives or neighbors because they are of no USE.
There are people who claim to be
interested in making friends and claim it to be their weakness in life. They do
all thousands of things to get the trust of others and make maximum number of
friendships and relations within a short span of time wherever they go. A deep
introspection is asked from you to check how many of them have been sincere?
Are all friendships curse in
disguise? Is it just an adjustment done in a society or community for a smooth
living? Is it just a search for people who are of one’s USE for one’s NEEDS?
Everyone has an ideal friendship
in mind and searches for a true friend. Is it just a mirage?
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